But instead of telling everyone to vote against it, she told everyone to vote in support of this bill. Here's how to protect your kids from online predators. A week later, she got a reply. On this Wikipedia the language links are at the top of the page across from the article title. 25 $. Children learn all kinds of safety lessons in schools, like how to deal with natural disasters, fires and strangers. For so many years I stayed angry and bitter towards him. She was afraid she would be a burden to her cousin and that no one would believe her. I can spend the rest of my life hating him, or I can forgive him and do something positive about this thing that continues to be a negative thing in my life, she said. I just figured I told my mom, and I never had to talk about this again. [3], "I was not educated on not keeping secrets if someone was hurting me. I got five sentences to my five pages, but he responded and it opened a door of communication, she said. Merryn spoke to members of the Ohio SenatePrimary and Secondary Education Committee of how she was sexually abused as a child. As I describe in my books, that center was the foundation of my healing. Silence Broken and Stigmas Shattered -- Help for Incest Survivors Is Here Fans of Erin Merryn's heart-wrenching debut memoir Stolen Innocence were left wondering at the end what would become of an emotionally fragile Erin after her confrontation with the reality of being a child of incest and molestation. Merryn worked with U.S. A therapist urged her to get her anger out on paper by writing her cousin a letter detailing how she felt, and after she wrote it, she was to rip it up, burn it or otherwise throw it away. It happened again after we moved away, when a cousin started abusing me in my sleep when I was 11 years old. Merryn is a national spokesperson for the National Children's Alliance, becoming the first survivor of child sexual abuse that went through a Children's Advocacy Center to speak on national television about her experience.[1]. Names were the only thing she changed. Requiring personal body safety education in public schools. IG: The_Cat_Named_Carrot.Ellen is Carrot's biggest fan. It was taught every year, and when a creepy van pulled up when I was 12 having a lemonade and the man put his hand out the window asking me to take the change those lessons immediately played back in my mind. He was free, but the rage inside Erin remained. It was a detailed account of how an officer came to her school to talk about stranger danger. She was honored for her efforts in 2012 as one of Glamour Magazines 2012 Women of the Year. She is the author of Bailey, No Ordinary Cat, Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. It is my hope hearing my message today youll see the importance of what Im here to talk to you about, said Erin Merryn. Says Merryn: "[Ashley] made me pinky promise not to say anything. At the age of 13, Erin finally got the courage to tell her parents after learning her younger sister was being abused by that same cousin. Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist Erin Merryn is the founder and president of Erins Law. Erin Merryn (Author) 139 ratings Kindle Edition $17.99 Read with Our Free App Paperback $16.56 16 Used from $11.22 5 New from $45.35 Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. Visit Amazon.au's Erin Merryn Page and shop for all Erin Merryn books. MORE: Cancer-surviving mom stays strong for her son. High near 60F. He continued to abuse her on and off for nearly two years, she says, often at holidays and celebrations with her close-knit extended family. After graduating, Erin went on to earn her Masters degree in social work, but from time to time she would still consult her little pink childhood diary. In the end, he was given seven years of probation, 1,000 hours of community service, he attended a two-year sex offender program, and couldnt come within 100 feet of Erin or her sister. I was abused. In December 2010 I was voted News Maker of the year for the Daily Herald.She earned her masters degree in Social Work and is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, AnUnimaginableAct, Bailey No Ordinary Cat & The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot. In 2009 Texas passed a similar law but it was only a task force which did not mandate students be taught personal body safety, making Illinois the first state to require personal body safety education by law. Use safe and unsafe touch. Here's How We Amplify It | National Children's Alliance", "Erin Merryn Fights for Law to Help Child Sexual Assault Victims", "Erin's Law: When the Abuser Is No Stranger", "State Senate Passes Erin Merryn's Law Aimed at Child Sex Abuse Prevention", "Survivor Recalls Alleged Incest in Book", "Child Sexual Abuse Survivor Gets Law Passed", https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Erin_Merryn&oldid=1132623568, Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License 3.0, This page was last edited on 9 January 2023, at 19:15. However, Merryn said this time the perpetrator was an older cousin, someone she had viewed as a brother figure. Erin Merryn, Stolen Innocence: Triumphing Over a Childhood Broken by Abuse: A Memoir 0 likes Like "Brian, this letter is probably coming as a complete surprise to you, but I didn't feel I should warn you since you never warned me when you were going to use my body for own damn pleasures. People would be amazed how many people this really does affect and that they know but have never come forward. Her older cousin sexually abused her from 11-13 years old. Merryn now had a duty as a big sister to protect her younger sibling. Low near 30F. See all See top. It would have given me courage to know that I didn't have to live in constant fear that they could hurt me, and hurt me even worse if I told anyone. Walking up to a door with so many racing thoughts afraid I was not going to be believed, wondering what I was going to be asked, and so ashamed to even think about sharing the dirty secrets. The voice that was silenced for so long. Nightmares. The ability to forgive both my abusers set me free and gave me my voice back and the strength to speak out for others. She is an activist against child sexual abuse as well as the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety in order to prevent child sexual abuse. It allowed me to go on this mission to be a face and voice for millions by letting go of hatred and instead turning pain into a purpose. But what followed was depression,an eating disorder and a suicide attempt. Merryn is an author and activist against sexual abuse who founded "Erin's Law," which requires school to. Merryn cautions that you can never just go by how many registered sex offenders are in your area. The only education I ever received about sexual abuse was when I became a victim, and the abusers threatened bad things would happen if I ever told. My question to hotel or motel management would be, Why not tell? As an adult, she's reclaimed the voice her. When she is traveling to state capitols or speaking engagements she is entertaining her 270,000Instagram followers that follow her famous cat. Do not use the phrases good touch and bad touch, says Merryn. She is the force behind passing Erin's Law across America. will then mail or hand the parents or responsible adult family member the Megans Law information. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. One thing my abusers kept telling me was that I had no proof that they were hurting me, so why would anyone believe me? CAC The place Erin Merryn broke her silence The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County Illinois In 1998 seventy five thousand six hundred and forty seven abused children were seen in one hundred and thirty nine Children's Advocacy Centers in America. He threatened her to stay silent so she kept her secrets locked away in her childhood diary. Please join Erin Merryn in her crusade to protect children from sexual abuse and donate to help her with her travel expenses today! Thats precisely why she does what she does. A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Erin has worked diligently to lobby every state to pass Erin's Law, beginning with her home state of Illinois in 2009. Visiting Alaska this week, Erin Merryn is a long way from home, and even farther from the torturous past she endured as a sexually abused child. We need to start teaching kids this, she said. I am so confident I will get this law passed in all 50 states, because God has already told me it will happen. Erin Merryn, the bill's namesake and a survivor of sexual abuse, said she is frustrated by the governor's slow response to sign it into law. Read more about Erins Law at www.erinslaw.org, or about Erin herself at www.erinmerryn.net. This law could have given me the ability to know I would be believed, that this is not a secret to keep, and how to report it. How I wondered am I suppose to tell this stranger my pain when I am too ashamed to even talk in detail with my parents about it. Forgiving him did not mean what he did was right, she stressed. Little did I know by moving I was getting that much closer to my next abuser. Throughout her school years, Erin Merryn of Schaumburg, Ill., received plenty of lessons in the dangers her elders thought she could encounter during her childhood. Merryn: Yes. "Erin's Law" is named after Schaumburg native and activist Erin Merryn. My abusers threatened me, and I believed them. So before CAC's a child brought to a police station could be filled with anxiety and fear that they are in trouble. Every parent should do their homework before they send their kids anywhere. Get the best experience and stay connected to your community with our Spectrum News app. Erin said they just wanted to make sure their nephew got help. Erin Merryn is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, An Unimaginable Act, Bailey No Ordinary Cat, and The Diary of a Cat Named Carrot. The founder of Erin's Law. These monsters are living in all of our backyards., (Tip: Offender Locator is a great app to have on your smart phone.). She earned a master's degree from Aurora University in social work. Two of those children were my sister and I. Visiting Alaska this week, Erin Merryn is a long way from home, and even farther from the torturous past she endured as a sexually abused child. The case never went to trial, and Brian received some counseling, but no punishment. There are thousands of accused sex offenders every year who are found not guilty living in our communities. Alaska Dispatch: What can someone reading about this do in their own life, or change about their own perspective, to make coming forward easier for victims? What if their family is pressuring them to just keep quiet and get on with their life? Around the time we were getting ready to move away, my friend had a birthday party. The man had threatened Merryn that hed hurt her more if she told anyone. Acting out both at home and in school, she was given an IEP (Individual Education Plan) and was told she was just going through a phase; that her parents brief separation was the probable root cause. The shame is so overwhelming. tax-exempt 501(c)(4) non-profit organization. That is just (in) America. But nobody asked those important questions. The law has now passed in 37 states. Erin has spoken at over 250 CAC events.In 2008 she began writing legislators to require personal body safety be taught to kids in school. The abuse continued until she was almost 9. Erin, now a 33-year-old wife and mother of two with one on the way, has spent the last eight years travelling to every state advocating for abused children. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her terrible secret. Vermont State Board of Education has required it in schools since 2009. It wasnt until Erin was 13 and found out the same thing was happening to her little sister (then age 11), that she decided she needed to speak out. He sat down in front of Merryn and put his finger to his lips signaling her to remain quiet. Alaska's version of Erin's Law is currently under consideration by the Alaska State Legislature as House Bill 233. Behind those numbers are the faces of innocent children whose childhoods were shattered by actions of evil and sickness. I was told repeatedly by my cousin that I had no proof, that he would deny it, that no one would believe me. Merryn: I reclaimed my voice in the Children's Advocacy Center. He did respond admitting what he did and saying he is using his past to not make the same mistakes now in his life. The cousin used the same tactic as her first abuser telling her no one would believe her and there was no proof. I continued to write him because I wanted answers. As a young child from 6 to 8 (years old), when the neighbor was abusing me, he warned me if I told anyone he would come get me; he knew where I lived. We simply cannot stand by and allow these innocent kids to feel ashamed and live in fear at the hands of their abuser. [8] In November 2009, she published a second book, Living For Today, discussing earlier abuse by her neighbor. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual ab Carrot has 281,000 instagram followers. So be careful sending little Tommy for ice at the machine down the hall and inform teens who often book motels after prom. At a family gathering at her grandparents' lake house, she awoke in the middle of the night to find her cousin "Brian" (again, not his real name), then 13 . In 2013, Governor Quinn signed it into law requiring Illinois schools to teach it every single year. 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We've had an unprecedented change for our Gingerbread House Partners in Prevention 2021 Luncheon and we couldn't be more excited! I finally got, after seven months, what I had been looking for: an apology. This decision has brought her on a crusade across America to pass what is known as Erin's Law. She was taught how to ride out a tornado, instructed in the eight steps for turning down illegal drugs, and told how to react to a friendly stranger who might try to abduct her. Merryn: This wasn't bad luck. Erin wanted nothing more than to make him feel the hurt that she did. I know that when theres one in four girls and one in six boys (being abused) Im not the only one standing in this room that this has happened to, Erin said of the statistics. Erin Merryn was an innocent child of six when her best friend asked her to sleepover. Soon it was no longer our secret and I was behind a different closed door not the one to a bedroom, a bathroom, basement, or closet but this time into a colorful room with a small table and bright light shinning through the skylight. Survivors need to know they have nothing to be ashamed of. My parents believed me and my cousin Brian confessed to the police, she said. But Ashley begged her not to say anything because Richard had told her they would "lose the house" if the girls told anyone. She knew exactly what she was doing by asking simple questions on my life, friends, what I did for fun, and my family. Did anything make you an attractive target, or particularly vulnerable? Ill never be abused again, its just all gonna go away.. God has healed me, made me whole again, and has shown me the ability to forgive, the freedom it brings yourself, and shown me my purpose in this life, and that is to give kids the voice I didn't have. Erin Merryn is among the many that came across the story. Young children tend to hear a lot of messages about avoiding interactions with people they don't know, when in reality they are far more likely to face harm from a relative or family friend. Details Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. I tell parents the best way to talk to kids about this is through the swimsuit lesson, Merryn said. The school, community organization, day care center, etc. Unthinkable acts. Every other headline horrifies the public with another predator taking not just advantage of a child but everything from a child. Erin Elizabeth was sexually abused from 11-13 by her older cousin. Erin has been traveling state to state testifying to lawmakers to pass Erin's law for 7 years. Two years later, though,whenErin was 11, she said her older teenage cousin started abusing her too. My sister and I told our parents the next day (and) we were referred to the Children's Advocacy Center by police detectives to be interviewed. Merryn: I cover these two words in my second book, "Living for Today." Eleven states have passed the legislation. Bad things happen to children all the time, the Garden State may soon benefit from Merryns harrowing experience, knowledge and hope, Your California Privacy Rights/Privacy Policy. Merryn travels the country bearing witness to what happened to her in hopes of encouraging states to enact laws requiring sexual abuse education in schools. And it was at her house the very first overnight that I woke up to her uncle who lived in the home sexually abusing me," said Merryn. ALBANY, N.Y. - The Independent Democratic Conference was joined today by Assemblyman Jeff Dinowitz, (D-Bronx), and nationally recognized anti-abuse advocate and survivor Erin Merryn to hail the passage of important legislation to stamp out child sexual abuse in New York. Merryn (whose other books are Stolen Innocence and Living for Today), the mother of a toddler girl, says this is a conversation parents must have every year and often. He was given probation and counseling., Forgiveness is what set me free, she said. COLUMBUS, Ohio The Ohio Senate is considering a bill to teach elementary, middle and high school students how to protect themselves from sexual predators. Read more (Stacey Wescott / Chicago Tribune) During her quest,. The girls were brought to a Children's Advocacy Center where they had to tell their stories to complete strangers, something Erin wasnt looking forward to at all. Immediately I thought I was being asked this question because she already did not believe me. Merryn: There is so much shame and stigma attached to sexual abuse. Merryn saidif parents are not comfortable, the bill allows parents toopt their kids out of the education. I often say victims are those who are killed by their attackers. I eventually would return back to the room I was interviewed in nine months later when I began doing individual counseling but was still not ready to go there into details the shame overwhelmed me however I did learn to finally stop blaming myself for what happened to my younger sister and my entire family. Erin Merryn's memoir is about how her life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted."I thought when the abuse stopped I could move on with my life. Bucco introduced Erins Law (S-2145) on May 2. Erin Merryn is a 21-year-old college sophomore who wrote a book, "Stolen Innocence: Memoir," about her struggles after she claims she was molested by her first cousin. The bill had already passed the House . She now runs Carrot's Instagram and shares pictures of Carrot sharing a similar demeanor of her previously owned cat, Bailey. Bad things happen to children all the time. See her personal website at ErinMerryn.net Sexually abused and raped from age 6-8 by an adult neighbor Erin was threatened to stay silent by her abuser. Im very concerned about the possibility of grooming or the losing the innocence of our young children. The only difference is now I am running from him in my dreams" (Merryn 49). Erin Merryn speaks with enthusiasm, rattling off the list of trips around the globe, the hours of research and meetings promoting her cause. Caught you off guard? She wasn't always successful. She came to me after I had been abused for two years and told me words I never expected to hear, that she too was being abused by the same family member. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her terrible secret. Author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today Do you believe one word is more appropriate than the other? You've grown into a powerful voice who is bearing witness to the nation. I wish I could say that Erins story is uncommon, but that is far from the truth its happening right here in our own backyard, Bucco said. Call it what it is: penis and vagina.. Merryn successfully passed it in her state of Illinois in 2013 and has been traveling from one state capital to another testifying to state lawmakers to . Alaska Dispatch: In your quest to get Erin's Law passed in every state, you must have encountered some surprising remarks. He cornered her in basements, bathrooms and bedrooms, always reminding her that she shouldn't bother telling anyone because no one would believe her. Erin said all she ever learnedin school was aboutstranger danger. But knowing it was not strangers who abused her,she has made it her mission as an adult to make sure kids in K-12 schoolsacross the countryonce a year learnfroma school psychologist or social workerabout personal body safety education. CBN News Self - Children's Advocate. Merryn said she was never taught to speak up about it, so shekept it a secret. According to Merryn, every school gets the option to pick a Erins Law program, and have an outside agency teach. The first abuser, our neighbor, is someone I think who did this to any girl he had access to. How and when did you do it first? Forgiveness set me free. Check out Erins third book, An Unimagiable Act. This book describes Erins journey across America to get Erins Law passed and resources for survivors, parents, and educators. Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. It was the first time she supported a school mandate, and she retired later that year. Teaching kids the differences between safe and unsafe touch, safe and unsafe secrets, how to report this to a safe adult and to keep reporting it if your abuse does not end, said Merryn. Innocence lost. Erin Merryn is author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her . When I was six years old, I was sexually abused at a neighbor's house. But then, it started happening behind closed doors at crowded family functions. The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County Illinois. That is what brought Erin to tell her story at Metamora Township High School last Monday afternoon, during an all-school assembly. But her parents thought it was because of health problems she was having at the time. I was a senior in high school when I published my first book, my childhood diary where I kept my secrets of abuse with my cousin locked away. Info here from RAINNwww.rainn.org/news/president-signs-measures-support-state-action-prevent-and-address-child-sexual-abuseErin's media appearances have included Access Hollywood 2020Tamron Hall 2020HLN 2020CBS Morning Show 2019The Morning Blend 2019CNN 2018, HLN 2018, BUILD 2018 TLC Breaking the Silence Documentary TODAY show 2015, Nancy Grace 2015, ABC Nightline 2015, CNN 2015, Dr. Drew 2015, Inside Edition 2015, MSNBC 2015, Oprah Winfrey Network 2014, Windy City Live 2014, MSNBC 2013, FOX 2013, Katie Couric 2013, Oprah Life Class 2012, CNN 2012, Issues with Jane Velez Mitchell 2011, Oprah Winfrey Show October 2010, Montel Williams in April/July 2006, and Good Morning America in May 2006. Children must be taught to tell a trusted adult if anyone touches their private parts. You will be believed.. As I often tell people, our innocence was stolen, (our) trust taken, but the one thing we can reclaim as survivors is our voices. Growing up in the suburbs of Chicago, I met my best friend in kindergarten. My sister and I were the only girls that he was around all the time. She lives in Chicago with her husband and two daughters. The more I shared the more I felt heard like I was lifting this burden off me and by the way the forensic interviewer was talking to me and encouraged me she gave me the message she believed me. It is currently passed in 37 states as of January 2021. The law was passed in a number of states,[7] with New York becoming the 37th in 2019. "Alabama needs this law because just like everywhere else in America . A voice that flies across America and speaks at many of these CAC's that exist taking people back to my experience at the CAC and this time sharing all the details because I no longer carry the shame but instead a voice bringing awareness to these incredible centers that give children a new start on life and a path toward healing. Chris Newlin - National Children's Advocacy Center So began her fight to bring this epidemic to the forefront, to push for every state to implement a prevention-oriented child sex-abuse program that teaches parents and school personnel how to recognize the signs of sexual abuse, and teaches kids from Kindergarten through twelfth grades techniques on how to also acknowledge abuse and tell a trusted adult. (2012) Fox News Self - Author of 'An Unimaginable Act'. 2022 Anchorage Daily News. February 7, 2023 by Cindy Erin Merryn is a Global Advocate for Child Sex Abuse Prevention For years, Erin Merryn was too scared to speak up about sexual abuse. 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